Is a Verbally Abusive Person or Cruel Insulting People Making Your Life a Misery?

Verbal abusers can include husband, wife, partner, friends, family or work associates. They are people who persistently do any of these damaging or bullying things...

• Continue to make insulting comments about your clothes, appearance, friends, job etc., when it clearly offends you or after you have expressly asked them to stop
  
• Shout, yell or scream at you in a way that is alarming, upsetting or traumatic for you
  
• Swear at you, insult or sneer at you, repeatedly "rubbish" your words or actions.
  
• Use a tone of voice, facial expression or other body-language that "speaks down to you"
  
• Criticize you in a destructive, demeaning way which harms your self-esteem
  
• Constantly put you down - nothing you do will ever be good enough!
  
• Address or Label you negatively e.g. call you stupid, fat, lazy, call you "an idiot" etc
  
• Exaggerate, or constantly remind you, of your weaknesses, failings, past mistakes etc.
  
• Ignore you when speaking in a group, or take up an excessive share of attention, conversation or physical "space"
  
• Engage in destructive communications, actions or inactions, which "stab you in the back"
  
• Bully you, manipulate you, pressurize you, or encourage you to have feelings of guilt or inferiority.
  
• Say "poisoned" things that encourage you to feel guilty, hurt or traumatised.
  
• Lie to you, deceive you, or deprive you of ("hold back") information that you need.

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